I got your note. I hear your heart. I can relate to your apprehension.
Unfortunately, I cannot do Matthew 18:15-18 for you. To do so would be an act of two unhealthy things:
- Depriving you of the chance to grow
- Disobeying God myself
If you need help preparing for such a meeting, that's what the church is for — to equip you! If it goes south during the process, that's what the church is for — to support you!